tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post8678111860934051001..comments2024-01-18T03:34:41.899-07:00Comments on Cheaper Than Therapy: Parents Behaving BadlyAttila the Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02158308703617226652noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-47688740010144871712007-07-02T10:29:00.000-06:002007-07-02T10:29:00.000-06:00everytime i hear about that city, i think of the s...everytime i hear about that city, i think of the song: chula vista got crazy game! LOL<BR/><BR/>p.s. great blog!!!!!!*Tanyetta*https://www.blogger.com/profile/14339189484151758472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-120185240256516222007-07-02T09:44:00.000-06:002007-07-02T09:44:00.000-06:00I guess I go further back than ya'll. I (and my fr...I guess I go further back than ya'll. I (and my friends) were either given lunch money daily or mom fixed a yummy lunch for us to carry. What the heck goes on that it can't be done today? <BR/>For misslitzi: Personal belief here. I think your governator is doing a lot (big, big lot) better than our governator here in N.M. And besides, he's got Terry Tamminen teaching him.Catmoveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13192091477404637971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-14011778880288471812007-06-29T05:44:00.000-06:002007-06-29T05:44:00.000-06:00Wow - that cheese sandwich tactic was pure genius....Wow - that cheese sandwich tactic was pure genius. I'm amazed the aclu hasn't filed suit.phlegmfatalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08636803080525003892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-52614247421248184512007-06-27T20:49:00.000-06:002007-06-27T20:49:00.000-06:00The sandwhich of shame??? What if you really like...The sandwhich of shame??? What if you really like cheese sandwhiches??Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878569780988628624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-61423308408166156082007-06-27T15:59:00.000-06:002007-06-27T15:59:00.000-06:00Our school does this, with P&J and I hate it. It ...Our school does this, with P&J and I hate it. It punishes the kids, and most of the times the parents don't really seem to care. It is the kid who gets humiliated in line, starts crying when the main entree is taken out of their hands. I have spent so much of my own money just paying for their lunch!! At the end of the school year our PTA paid off the debt for our school alone, so all kids could enjoy the rest of the years lunches. WOW, that sounds funny, "enjoy the school lunches", I guess everything is relative. LOL I work in an innercity school. What also frustrates me if the parents would just fill out the free lunch application, it could be avoided!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-21701557097737708712007-06-27T14:47:00.000-06:002007-06-27T14:47:00.000-06:00That's a pretty smart idea, I like it. It's a sham...That's a pretty smart idea, I like it. It's a shame that the kids have to eat the sanwich of shame thoughSamanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03999167751789368758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-43229137100154654652007-06-27T10:51:00.000-06:002007-06-27T10:51:00.000-06:00Hi Attila,Living in the “land of fruits and nuts” ...Hi Attila,<BR/>Living in the “land of fruits and nuts” I wouldn’t have expected anything different than this ridiculous scenario out of Chula Vista. California is probably one of the wealthiest states in the Country but our public school system has been in a deplorable shambles for years. A lot of people had hopes that “The Govenor-ator” would be able to turn things around but so far he’s faced stalemates and opposition at every turn. And it’s the children who suffer from the adults’ stupidity. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for this informative post….Litzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15797830477221024642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-30304632191556158162007-06-27T10:37:00.000-06:002007-06-27T10:37:00.000-06:00While I have to agree with Em, at the same token, ...While I have to agree with Em, at the same token, the one thing that got the debt to go down--Was the school "punishing" their children--Parents always want to defend their child, and this seemed to work.<BR/>Good for the school!<BR/>♥Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-65189166471068953722007-06-27T08:45:00.000-06:002007-06-27T08:45:00.000-06:00I'm all for parental responsibility. But in this c...I'm all for parental responsibility. But in this case, the parents should pay..but when they don't, the kid got punished. That's not right. Why embarrass a kid when the kid did nothing wrong? Print the list of deadbeat parents in the local newspaper instead. Let the shame fall on the right person.Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14063254538593495040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-76935456474323471352007-06-27T06:59:00.000-06:002007-06-27T06:59:00.000-06:00I bet there are going to be serious implications f...I bet there are going to be serious implications for the cheese industry in a few years. All these kids are going to grow up associating cheese sandwiches with a visual sign of poverty and humiliation and will never touch the stuff again.<BR/><BR/>Although personally I reckon Broccoli should have been the alternativeKim Ayreshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02656677501116622953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-40011780728280631312007-06-27T03:41:00.000-06:002007-06-27T03:41:00.000-06:00I'm big on parental responsibility as well. Part ...I'm big on parental responsibility as well. Part of a child's learning experience is educating them in the cafeteria, social skills, behavior, etc.. If they have an unpleasant time, it affects them. And then those parents at fault are always looking to blame someone else.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-47307690357117116122007-06-26T23:20:00.000-06:002007-06-26T23:20:00.000-06:00I agree with everyone...Pete... Big Pissy... Carma...I agree with everyone...<BR/><BR/>Pete... Big Pissy... Carmachu...Terri@SteelMagnoliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11784173081245407124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-59454250303227335992007-06-26T22:07:00.000-06:002007-06-26T22:07:00.000-06:00Hey, parents, pay the freaking money. Its that sim...Hey, parents, pay the freaking money. Its that simple....<BR/><BR/>Oh and if you want to see one ultimate consequence of parents behaving badly...<BR/><BR/>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yg4w320mlkocarmachuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06037584604296331790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-70029717409246898112007-06-26T15:27:00.000-06:002007-06-26T15:27:00.000-06:00I am SO tired of people not taking responsibility....I am SO tired of people not taking responsibility....one of the major reasons I left the District Attorney's Office.<BR/><BR/>I got tired of dealing with deadbeats.Big Pissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11024226667518288383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-48923321447240571012007-06-26T11:29:00.000-06:002007-06-26T11:29:00.000-06:00We don't have lunch programs. You provide for your...We don't have lunch programs. You provide for your children. End of story.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-51513133845750406622007-06-26T11:10:00.000-06:002007-06-26T11:10:00.000-06:00We didn't have entree choices when I was in school...We didn't have entree choices when I was in school. We ate what we were served, and sometimes it WAS a cheese sandwich. It was a perfectly acceptable lunch back then.<BR/><BR/>We also had to pay on Monday for the entire week's lunches. If you didn't pay, you didn't eat; simple as that.<BR/><BR/>But I suppose there are some slacker parents out there who would let their kids go hungry rather than make sure the money was there.Blogaritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06907539670169738329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-70409385960021680852007-06-26T10:35:00.000-06:002007-06-26T10:35:00.000-06:00“The kid was humiliated,” said his father.Well, ma...<I>“The kid was humiliated,” said his father.</I><BR/><BR/>Well, maybe the poor kid will learn a lesson about paying your debts. And he can thank his asswipe father for that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-84992110253040386602007-06-26T10:13:00.000-06:002007-06-26T10:13:00.000-06:00Beings that the delta here is one of the poorest r...Beings that the delta here is one of the poorest rural districts in the state (probably ranks right up there in the US too), and I'd guess that a strong 80% of the students here are on free or reduced lunches, that wouldn't go over very well here with the paying parents. Discrimination is a strong word down here. We have the option of buying advance vouchers and then they give you plenty of notice of when they're running low. I usually just try to calculate how many school days are in a semester and write a check for that amount cause I'd so forget it if I had to give him money daily. The kids shouldn't have to suffer for their dense parents.Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16299205162628367889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-31932887163850513312007-06-26T09:34:00.000-06:002007-06-26T09:34:00.000-06:00My mom used to make me cheese sandwiches for lunch...My mom used to make me cheese sandwiches for lunch because I liked them. Maybe if those kids brought sandwiches from home, they wouldn't have to do the Lunch of Shame OR run up a tab.<BR/><BR/>Or are kids not allowed to bring food from home anymore? (I've been out of school for a long time and I have no children; bear with me for asking such a dopey question.)golfwidowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05814109136049807372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-76707322029815051372007-06-26T09:07:00.000-06:002007-06-26T09:07:00.000-06:00At our school is bland tasting ham sandwiches, and...At our school is bland tasting ham sandwiches, and the kids hate them! And the school doesn't let you go into debt with them first before serving them to your child. If they don't have the money for that day, then that is what they get for lunch. I think it's a good rule. Of course, I always make sure my kids have enough lunch money. Some parents can just be stupid, ya know?Mandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04216673341885600959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-76699918528647470372007-06-26T08:30:00.000-06:002007-06-26T08:30:00.000-06:00you can't expect anyone to actually take responsib...you can't expect anyone to actually take responsibility for anything!!The Quacks of Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05165918541194607143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-11597912427183715062007-06-26T06:59:00.000-06:002007-06-26T06:59:00.000-06:00I feel sorry for the kids for having to suffer for...I feel sorry for the kids for having to suffer for their parent's failings. And it is the parent's fault - not the school district's.<BR/><BR/>No way PB & J could be served here. Peanut butter is banned from schools due to allergies.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14110235078325434919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-33318086482802243312007-06-26T06:57:00.000-06:002007-06-26T06:57:00.000-06:00A cheese sandwich on whole wheat sounds like a per...A cheese sandwich on whole wheat sounds like a perfectly good lunch to me. <BR/><BR/>Bonehead parents LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21447266.post-23560371681212952702007-06-26T05:43:00.000-06:002007-06-26T05:43:00.000-06:00Heh. They should have made it brussel sprouts.Heh. They should have made it brussel sprouts.Amie Adamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12317241081653904332noreply@blogger.com